情感语录中写满了关于我和你的故事，而我们想对方的时候就会找很多的情感语录，什么样的情感语录才称得上质量高呢？下面是小编为大家整理的女生主动找我吐露负面情绪这是否意味着我没吸引到她，欢迎大家借鉴与参考，希望对大家有所帮助。
如果女生主动找我吐露负面情绪，这是否意味着我没吸引到她，她是不是把我定为低价值的男生呢？面对这种情况如何应对？
成真回答：谢谢你把吸引学上升到哲学。允许我对你做个冷读：我感觉你像一个很爱思考，很善于理论，逻辑严密的人。像你这样的学者型的人，有很多优势，你很会学习，很会思考问题。但也会有一个缺点：容易陷在自己的思考里，而忽略了实践和实际反馈。
比如，你问的这个问题很有水平，是你看了我的东西后经过你自己的思考得出的问题。这点很赞。女生找你主动吐露负面情绰，这事本身不能说是她把你看成是低价值的男生。如果，这个女生平时从来不主动找你，每次主动找你，她要么是有实际的需求需要你帮忙，要么就是想找人诉苦，那么，这就很有可能她把你看成她的卫星男或者男闺蜜。
女生找you吐露负面情绪，也有可能是因为她感知到you能接受，甚至感受到you有一点喜欢she，所以she在you face前可以放下伪装，可以发发嗲，可以寻求安慰等等。
当然，对we boys最容易最轻松的是一开始把自己的社交价值拉得很高，这样girl可能看到you就会想尽办法来讨好you，所以，她就不太容易表达负面情绰，因为she更在乎your look at her。你作为boy去吸引这个girl是不费吹灰之力的。你只要适时给her认可，让her可以追to you just can be okay.
但如果this girl已经开始对youbout negative emotions, good thing is you guys are pretty familiar now, and the girl trusts you at least. But bad thing is you need to spend more effort to build attraction with her, raise your social value. For example, if the girl says she's tired from work, you can respond like this: "Come on, help me massage my shoulders; if she's tired too much, she won't feel tired anymore." Then add a smirk. You get it?
Note that if the girl complains about another boy and it's related to their ambiguous relationship, then you should immediately change the subject and definitely don't act as her emotional counselor.
Editor's Recommendation: When someone tells me they love me but not ready for marriage yet or even never want to marry me again in future; I understand how confusing and painful it must be for them when they see others getting married while they're still stuck in a long-term relationship without any clear future plans.
The story of Chand from Six Feet Under reminds us that fear of marriage stems from past experiences. Chand fears marriage because his parents' divorce was due to his father being gay and having an affair with a male servant during Christmas when he confessed everything to his mother who was furious enough to hate him forever afterward.
Chand has difficulty celebrating Christmas because every time he thinks about it he remembers what happened between his parents which led them into lifelong hatred towards each other after their divorce.
Therefore men out there who may have experienced similar traumas should take responsibility for their actions but also remember that women may hold onto hope for better relationships by ignoring such issues until things become unbearable or intolerable within themselves before taking action towards ending unhappy marriages or seeking happiness outside through infidelity - all these situations lead nowhere positive in life as we learn here today!